FAQ

ā My wife wants nothing to do with relationship growth, how can things possibly get better? ā
This is a question that I hear a lot and I used to struggle to understand it myself!Ā šĀ What Iāve learned through my own experience and coaching clients is - when one person changes their steps in the dance, the whole dance changes. Your wife canāt keep doing the same olā steps if you are changing YOUR patterns!Ā šš¼
My individual clients tell me how empowered they feel as they see their relationship changing before their eyes⦠with no involvement from their partner! You donāt have to wait for your partner to get on board with growth (who knows if that day will come.. unless you dive in and commit to your growth now!Ā šš»)
When I joined a group coaching program years ago, without my partner, I learned that he actually wasnāt opposed to relationship growth AT ALL! This blew my mind. The truth was, we actually didnāt have emotional safety in our relationship andĀ I found out that Iād been approaching the topicĀ in a very uninspiring way⦠both of these things I was able to start shifting thanks to coaching š (By week 3 ofĀ the program he refused to join,Ā my partner was asking about the content and joining in on the modules! My eyes nearly bugged out of my head! And these days, he is alllll in!)
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ā I donāt want to talk about my relationship with a group, so is this right for me?Ā ā
This is soooo valid. Iāll be totally honest - this was one of the biggest things I was scared of when I joined group coaching! I was like⦠this is personal stuff. I didnāt want people to know what was going on behind the scenes. I was scared that I wouldnāt be totally honest on the calls so then I wouldnāt get the support I actually needed.
Iām happy to report that what I found was the exact opposite ā” for the first time I felt SEEN. I wasnāt alone. We were all on this journey together. I learned so much fromĀ the other membersĀ š They asked things I never would have thought to talk about and seeing them coached through it was powerful.Ā I also had the accountability and support of not only the coach, but the community.
RISE is the ultimate men's group:Ā confidential, safe, non-judgmental and supportive. It will be loving space for us all to heal and grow together. I got goosebumps writing that. Itās going to be a beautiful thing š
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ā Iām worried about the cost⦠ā
This makes sooo much sense, we all know the raising prices all around us and adding on another expense can be⦠stressful š«
I felt the same. I had to ask myself⦠What is the cost of staying where we are in our relationship? That changed my mind.
Just sit for a moment and picture yourself a year from now and nothing has changed between the two of you. Or⦠itās gotten worse. We know that things arenāt likely to get better if nothing changes šš»
Thatās why I look at it as an investment.. Investing in your heart, your growth, your relationship, your happiness, your future. Youāre not just "buying a program"; youāre gaining a life-changing experience, a coach who will be your number one cheerleader and guide, a supportive community and the opportunity to empower yourself and learn the roadmap to thriving love š
As a founding member, you're also getting into RISE at the lowest investment possible right now!Ā š LET'S GO!!!
ā I donāt have the time to commit to this program ā
I get it. SO much! Life is super busy.
The reeeeally cool thing about investing time into personal and relationship growth is that it actually creates more time!Ā Think about how much time you spend now feeling tense, stressed, arguing with your wife, being in that post argument yuck feeling where you want reconnection but itās not happening, disconnection, losing sleep replaying arguments, walking around feeling like roommates, feeling anxious because things are so hard⦠WHEW. That is a LOT of time.
Committing to your growth means a lottttt of those things are going to be happening WAY less (or not at all!). Time. Created ⨠Youāll be spending that time feeling a lot more ease and flow with your partner and in life in general!
And ā” the zoom calls will be recorded and stored in our confidential portal just for members eyes š Which means that even if you have to miss a call or two, you wonāt really be missing out!Ā
And just so you know: The private facebook community opens September 22nd and our first 90 minute call is October 2nd at 5:30pm Pacific Time! Ā Our calls will continue weekly on Thursdays at 5:30pm pacific for a total of 9 calls!
ā If you're in aĀ very different time zone but you reeeeally want to join ā”ļø please reach out via email š If there's enough interest, I would totally start up a second group at a different time! šĀ
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ā Iām scared Iāll join and then find out itās not a good fit ā
I absolutely get that š And I want you to be soooo happy with your decision to join! So, if after the first call on October 2, you decide itās not the right fit, you donāt like the set up, the experience, the coaching, anythiiing⦠you just have to let me know within 24 hours by email and you can get all your money back and leave the programĀ š NoĀ hard feelings, no worries whatsoever!! I want you to feel like this is the perrrrfect fit! š
And ā” no matter where youāre at on your relationship journey, these tools are fundamental and apply to *alllll relationships and stages š *There are just a few caveats here - this program is not for those in abusive/unsafe relationships, relationships with active substance abuse, if youāre in a relationship and have recently found out about an affair or where a past affair has occurred and it is greatly impacting the relationship and/or your partner isnāt interested in doing healing work around affair or if you are experiencing untreated psychiatric emergencies* In these instances, therapy and/or more individualized support is recommended.
ā How do I know if I like your style or coaching? ā
Such a great question!Ā I can totally appreciate that youād want to know if my coaching is a good fit for you! š
You can check out my free webinar: Break Free from Fighting š
Or my YouTube Channel, Loving with Intention š
ANY other questions, I am so here for you! *AND* you'll want to hop on this quick, with only 5 spots available! āĀ [email protected]Ā š